If I Could Tell You Anything

How about, "If you love you each other, you'll find a way to be together."? Does being together always fall on the man? I've seen a lot of quotes like this lately and frankly making these blanket statements is like painting a miniature with a spray can.  Making thisblind of advice gender specific is like waiting for the canvas to paint itself while you huff the paint fumes. It perpetuates relational and emotional toxicity by allowing the message to be applied indiscriminately, and wrongfully, and allows a certain entitlement in doing so. If I'm wrong show me. (PS I won't waste time to indulge less than thoughtful responses.)